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Is the American Dream Dead? I hope so!

Posted by Gabe Graumann on July 16, 2011

If you had asked any random American in the spring of 2008 how they defined the “American Dream,” you would probably hear something to the effect of owning a house with a white picket fence, a few children running around the yard with a dog, and a BMW for him and a Honda Odyssey for her parked in the driveway. Fast forward a few years to the summer of 2011 and that same person may have a slightly different answer. It’s not that people don’t want the same types of things as they did prior to the recent downturn in the economy, it’s just that the thick veil of unreality that had clouded the eyes of millions of Americans for years suddenly became a little bit thinner.

For tens of thousands, the American Dream was achieved not by years of conservative spending habits and prudent investing, but rather a no-limits bared consumption lifestyle fueled by easy credit and people’s unwillingness to use the word “no” to stuff. “Should I buy a 3rd pair of shoes this month even though I have 5 like them at home?” Yes! “Should I buy a new Ford F-250 truck even though I’m not a contractor and I commute 35-minutes to downtown each day?” Sure! “Should I take out a HELOC to fund that $50,000 gourmet kitchen I’ve always dreamed of despite the fact that 99% of my cooking involves the microwave?” Of course I should! “Should I buy this home that’s 3 times larger than I need, with no money down and an adjustable mortgage due to adjust in 36 months?” Absolutely!

These examples may be comical to a degree but a quick step back a few years and that was reality for many people. “Let the good times roll” was the prevailing attitude for the masses and the result was the inevitable crash we all had the privilege to walk through. As our glass-house perceptions of reality came crashing down all around us, we adamantly cried “never again, I’ll do it differently next time.” Fiscal responsibility chatter started flooding in from the white houses of Main Street to the slightly larger White House on 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue. At last, everyone seemed to be reading the Tortoise and the Hare again and desiring to morph their lives to resemble that of the Tortoise.

Though the mess isn’t over for everyone yet, there are enough positive changes from the job and stock markets alike to see that a recovery is in progress. Life is returning to what many people would call normality;  in doing so, I wonder if all those people who begged to become the Tortoise, if given the 2nd chance, are doing so? I’m curious what lessons have really been learned during the down times? Have behaviors really changed? Do we really intend to be more watchful of our spending habits? Have our investment strategies sincerely become more conservative? Have the methods for obtaining the American Dream, at least the pre-recession versions, really died? I hope so for all of our sake. Otherwise, we’ll be right back in this position within a decade if not sooner.

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Full Days

Posted by Gabe Graumann on December 15, 2009

Christmas is a mere one week away and if you are anything like me, you’re shocked to find how fast another year has passed. Where does the time go really? Taking a quick inventory of my time management informs me that I’ve spent the 8,760 hours that 2009 provided me with as follows (yes, I realize that ’09 hasn’t ended yet so technically I haven’t finished off all my allotted “2009 hours” yet, so I’ll use my cell phone’s rollover hours from 2008 to make up the difference….just in case any of you reading this are number nerds like me):

  • 263 weekdays (working about 250 of those) = 2,125 hours of work.
  • Working 250 of those days = 300 hours sitting in traffic.
  • My typical workday involves somewhere between 1-2 hours of phone time clients, tenants, and people wanting to sell me stuff I don’t want or need = 375 hours talking on the phone.
  • Utilizing the 102 weekend days and 13 non-working weekdays = 115 full days to spend with my wife, two children, and a home that also begs maintenance attention.
  • 115 full days = 600 or so hours wrestling with my son and dancing around the house with my daughter.
  • 115 full days = 600 or so hours hanging out with my wife.
  • 115 full days = 300 or so hours volunteering time at my church.
  • And 2,555 hours sleeping in and attempt to repeat all of items listed above on a daily basis.

After reviewing the numbers above I realized a few things. I now know why my butt (traffic), my ear (phone), and my feet (dancing and wrestling) hurt as often as they do. However, of all the hours listed above the ones I’ll cherish the most when this year ends are the full days spent with my wife, my children, and serving at my church. I’ll never forget them and I can never get them back. My encouragement to you for this Christmas and New Year is to live a few more full days.

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